Merupakar lie very despicable character and source of evil. Parents must protect their children from the bad deeds of this early on.
Why do children like to lie?
May be due to the following:
1. Rigid character Parents
The attitude of parents harsh and rigid character in applying the principles and discipline, making children forced to lie after lie. This is a way of saving him from the anger and the punishment his father and mother.
2. Parents Like Lying
Parents like this are very potential to produce children of high caliber liar. Although he tried to advise their children not to lie, his advice will not be ignored. Because the principle of education is exemplary.
If you as parents to give counsel and advice that lying is a sin, then the middle of giving "advice" came a knock at the door and then your message to the child: "if A came to say that the father was not at home", then his advice would be redundant, futile and useless.
3. Compensation For The Children
The child has certain shortcomings, and he compensates by lying about him. For example, he imagined a Power Ranger, became Superman and forth to cover her penakutnya and others.
4. The Children Want Praised
Maybe because they want to show the ability of the child was praised and applauded for acting up.
5. Children Receiving Many stories lie
The teachers and parents often give fictional tales that did not contain i'tibar. As a result the child is full of fantasy image is empty. Though many exemplary stories contained in the Qur'an. We recommend that teachers and parents are very selective in fairy tales.
6. Imaginative
Power of imagination in childhood grew enormously. They love to tell herself imaginatively that Anah had seen something somewhere, meet idol, hero worship and so forth. She would talk about as if in a dream, unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy.
We, the parents, however, should lead them to be able to distinguish the real world with a surreal, through advice and training services.
Why do children like to lie?
May be due to the following:
1. Rigid character Parents
The attitude of parents harsh and rigid character in applying the principles and discipline, making children forced to lie after lie. This is a way of saving him from the anger and the punishment his father and mother.
2. Parents Like Lying
Parents like this are very potential to produce children of high caliber liar. Although he tried to advise their children not to lie, his advice will not be ignored. Because the principle of education is exemplary.
If you as parents to give counsel and advice that lying is a sin, then the middle of giving "advice" came a knock at the door and then your message to the child: "if A came to say that the father was not at home", then his advice would be redundant, futile and useless.
3. Compensation For The Children
The child has certain shortcomings, and he compensates by lying about him. For example, he imagined a Power Ranger, became Superman and forth to cover her penakutnya and others.
4. The Children Want Praised
Maybe because they want to show the ability of the child was praised and applauded for acting up.
5. Children Receiving Many stories lie
The teachers and parents often give fictional tales that did not contain i'tibar. As a result the child is full of fantasy image is empty. Though many exemplary stories contained in the Qur'an. We recommend that teachers and parents are very selective in fairy tales.
6. Imaginative
Power of imagination in childhood grew enormously. They love to tell herself imaginatively that Anah had seen something somewhere, meet idol, hero worship and so forth. She would talk about as if in a dream, unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy.
We, the parents, however, should lead them to be able to distinguish the real world with a surreal, through advice and training services.
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