Many cases of children who run away from home or from school and then live vagrancy and wandering the streets, in supermarkets and reside in any place in the wild this. Why is that such behavior occur?
Due to heavy sanctions from parents or from teachers.
How dangerous when exposed to the raids and then placed dipenampungan bad boys, because it's where the danger is ready to confront. Among the existing dipenampungan there may be criminal and the people at the rehab center they can affect other children who are innocent or not contaminated by poor morale.
Habit of running away from home when not handled therapis by the parents and phsikiater, will develop into a very komlek problems and membuahka crime. One of the excesses of such behavior is a favorite lie, like the attack and may be trapped in the crime of stealing.
Whys and wherefores of a child running away from home, among others;
1. Seeing Talent Adventure
When you see kids have a tendency to like the outdoors a beautiful scenery, then he'll love the natural adventures like rock climbing, go up the mountain, sporting a touch with the outdoors and so forth. This is a talent that needs channeling. Even can be added with care activities ligkungan, enghijauan and so forth which are in addition to the adventure as well as scientific.
Many Western families established many clubs widya tour is a combination of recreation and interest (talent) of the participants. This discussion is positive activities to fill the school vacation time. If a club-like KUB is not used, children will divert the tendency to violence. The teachers, instructors and parents could be handed a book of adventure to give encouragement and direction to the child.
2. Sensitivity of the Soul Age Children.
Children have a sensitive soul that he erima mistreatment. When their human rights is pressed, they will be quick to react, then kaburlah it from home to avoid the pain and ketersinggungannya.
Be gentle and respect as human beings who need to independence dalaj decide everything. Treat your children well and fairly. Improve her attitude with the wise, treat ill-ills such as a doctor to his patient. Use existing references to books pandua child psychology.
3. There is a hatred or hostility.
The cause of children run away from home can also be caused because there is a school's home or despised. Especially in schools often there is competition and hostility. This can lead to fights. If this situation is not immediately dierai, then either party felt compelled to get out of school.
Besides, methods and ways of teaching does not match the talent of the child so they are very depressed, feeling very stupid and anxiety would doubt that they will be receiving. Everything itlah that make children run away from the school bench.
How to handle?
When the situation at home that became the trigger his departure, then the parents should create peace at home, away from noise and quarrels among family members.
When the school situation that became the base of the problem, should the teachers themselves about teaching instropeksi yag manuju direction methods that can be received by the students. Selaraska method of learning with living needs as widely.
4. Not Accept Reality.
Can also the soul of the child does not want to accept the realities of life, he dreamed of life which is too delicious, delicious food and all the needs are always met. He ran away from home in the hope that, outside the house can eat well despite having a variety of ways by which this occurred.
Parents need to pay attention to this problem. Give to children who become their needs, although in a simple form. In any problem like this the government is obliged to provide compensation to families who have not been able. Because they include the essential elements of society as well. If they both will bring good social impact as well. Conversely, if Kaun dhuafa damaged, would disrupt the social setabilitas worse.
How beautiful that has been practiced as if Islam, by building institutions to raise funds specifically for poor children. It seems that the state budget did not provide helpful section for poor children adequately. It needs to find a way out.
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