Retarded child is a child who can not afford to do as children of normal age. His personality is weak and insecure. Way of thinking slow, unbalanced movements mute, emotionally and jiwanyapun unstable.
Why did it happen so?
Parents who like to criticize sharply, like mencemoof, harassing, showering insults and lashes, make a child feel depressed. The attitude of people like this regrettable Rua. They are too demanding of the child as if not allowed to make mistakes at all and are required to do perfect in every way.
Utterances that were painful for instance: "You stupid child, fail and mess not like your brother and your sister! Or" Why do not you like The A, Si B, ...", and so on.
Such criticisms would meyakitkan liver dam makes the child lose his confidence. Children who are too dictated, then the soul will be frozen. The soul of a child is very sensitive, all words that hurt his pride will mengean deeply in the soul and memory.
What is needed by the children is the encouragement and guidance on an ongoing basis to foster a strong sense of confidence. Do not be broken if he makes mistakes, but motivasilah. Say that mistakes are experiences to the truth.
Sometimes outrageous that treat the child not just the mother or father, but also other relatives, in order to obtain more attention from their parents. If these conditions occur, such as parents should immediately intervene and straighten. @ @ @ #
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