CHILD THERAPY SINGLE

I have just met someone. I noticed he was so nervous. After the conversation I knew that he was worried about her son. He complained about the declining value of the lesson, physically weak and rather sickly.

"Is your son an only child?" I asked to guess.

"True ... but how do you guess that?"

"I know from your anxiety and your talks constantly about her just" I explained.

"It was ... my son is the only hope for me and for his mother. He was the gem of the liver. We're always concerned at each spring end. When he complained of pain, give very nervous, restless anxiety, heart pounding us so." he said.

"Will you tell me about your son's tantrums?" I pleaded.

"Sure ..."

"He was ... like an absolute ruler. If one just wants us ignore, he will be inflamed by a variety of ways. He pretended to be sick, even fell unconscious ... then got angry and kicked-gebrak, can diatasikah him? " said the father.

Before he went I interrupted, "Wait a minute ... let me go mgengenai act of your son. He is definitely a hunger strike because there is only a small problem, his soul and his character emotionally unstable, his body emaciated, not sleeping soundly, if the sick do not want to drink drug, if cranky difficult persuaded, short of logic because it is too full of his demands, he liked .... cranky, analisku.

"Enough ... enough ...! You reveal his character as if he had known him. How do you know the details like that?" the father was surprised.

"Symptoms like it's not surprising anymore. That's an average of only child temperament. The characters are easily recognized and often ciceramahkan by many psychologists." I said.

"Whether these psychologists have special tips to deal with and educate the child?" the father asked.

"Treatment is in the hands of your own." I replied.

"How?" he demanded.

"The first key is to have faith in God with resignation and trust in Him. After that exert both your obligations as a father and mother. Think and then decide kabaikan possibilities for your son or daughter. Do not be too berlabihan in showing affection. Take control away from its demands are not unreasonable. " I explain.

The father is crying, for some reason, then he asked, "If we were not able strictly to it, is there any other way?"

"If you both can not explicitly with the sole fruit of your heart, then send it to a boarding school to get an education personality, kemndirian and intensive discipline. If you both still did not have the heart, Leave to the nearest relatives, so the dependence on the parents can overcome.

In boarding school or at home closest relatives, he would grow normally like other children. Because there's nothing to spoil. He was separated from its original environment, grows in self confidence. Once this confidence grew stronger, he may take you back.

If BNapak and his mother insisted, was reluctant to do this sort of assertiveness, your son or daughter on the brink of danger, be it for himself, family and community. @@@